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One spouse, two-point-four kids, a golden retriever and a white picket fence. That’s the goal, right?


For some people that sounds perfect. For others, the monogamous ‘default’ feels restrictive and uncomfortable, and a more flexible approach allows them to flourish. In this honest, open guide, Sarah Stroh shares her experiences coming to terms with being non-monogamous and offers ways to explore relationship structures outside the status quo.


With advice on handling shame and stigma, understanding jealousy in yourself and your partners, and navigating long-term commitment, this book shows you how to develop healthy open relationships that support everyone involved. Whether you’re experienced with non-monogamy or simply poly-curious, this book will help you find relationship structures that work for you, and embrace life outside the box.

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Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto
Monogamaybe? offers a choose-your-own-adventure for wherever you are in your relationship(s) journey, teaching the skills necessary to practice non-monogamy. And yet, Sarah's memoir goes far deeper. By sharing and analyzing her polyamory path, she shows, firsthand, how to be a secure, grown-ass, fully functioning adult who doesn't let anger, fear, or unhelpful coping patterns dictate life. A must-read for anyone attempting to function in the world.