Adult Children of Borderline Parents
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29th May 2025
Price: £15.95
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Paperback / ISBN-13: 9781648484537
Heal the hidden wounds of growing up with a parent who has borderline personality disorder (BPD), develop a healthy sense of self, and reclaim your full potential.
Did you grow up with a parent who has borderline personality disorder (BPD), or you suspect they did? Was your parent’s behavior unpredictable or scary? Did it seem like they were angry one minute and happy the next? Were your basic needs ignored? If so, it wasn’t your fault. Children raised by a parent with BPD are subjected to a number of unhealthy and damaging behaviors-from uncontrolled anger and abuse, to gaslighting, blame-shifting, lying, and more. As a result of these experiences, you may have developed feelings of guilt, insecurity, and depression that have lingered throughout your adult life.
This compassionate guide offers a trauma-informed approach to help you recover from your toxic childhood and discover the person you were truly meant to be. You’ll learn how to identify emotional and developmental wounds, and discover why interactions with your parents were so harmful to your sense of self. Then, you’ll learn to create strong interpersonal boundaries and overcome feelings of guilt, anger, and low self-worth. Finally, through the act of emotional reprocessing, you’ll reclaim those aspects of yourself that were lost or distorted by your trauma, so you can restart healthy growth processes and become the person you were meant to be.
If you’re carrying the hidden wounds of a toxic childhood, you’re not alone-and you can heal. With this practical and powerful guide, you can finally understand what happened, build a healthy sense of self, and reach your full potential.
Did you grow up with a parent who has borderline personality disorder (BPD), or you suspect they did? Was your parent’s behavior unpredictable or scary? Did it seem like they were angry one minute and happy the next? Were your basic needs ignored? If so, it wasn’t your fault. Children raised by a parent with BPD are subjected to a number of unhealthy and damaging behaviors-from uncontrolled anger and abuse, to gaslighting, blame-shifting, lying, and more. As a result of these experiences, you may have developed feelings of guilt, insecurity, and depression that have lingered throughout your adult life.
This compassionate guide offers a trauma-informed approach to help you recover from your toxic childhood and discover the person you were truly meant to be. You’ll learn how to identify emotional and developmental wounds, and discover why interactions with your parents were so harmful to your sense of self. Then, you’ll learn to create strong interpersonal boundaries and overcome feelings of guilt, anger, and low self-worth. Finally, through the act of emotional reprocessing, you’ll reclaim those aspects of yourself that were lost or distorted by your trauma, so you can restart healthy growth processes and become the person you were meant to be.
If you’re carrying the hidden wounds of a toxic childhood, you’re not alone-and you can heal. With this practical and powerful guide, you can finally understand what happened, build a healthy sense of self, and reach your full potential.
Reviews
Once again, Lobel offers hope and clarity to people navigating life within a bewildering and painful borderline system. Lobel's newest book brings his expertise and empathy into the reader's hands, opening a doorway to a healthier path forward. A must-read how-to guide for clinicians and clients alike.
Dan shares decades of knowledge, and explains the most complex relationships of all, with skill and ease. The reader who has spent years trying to make sense of the most complex dyad of all, the borderline personality disorder (BPD) parent-adult child relationship, will not only find themselves in the pages but relate and identify with the outstanding lived-experience examples. This is a book that you will return to time and time again.
This book cleared up confusion about my relationship behavior that caused me pain for decades. The author's tone is warm and supportive, yet clear in pointing out hard truths I couldn't grasp until I saw them spelled out. Many of us with childhood trauma yearn for someone who understands. The author does. He'll show you how to heal and move on to freedom. Read this book—it will quickly improve your life.