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Do you and your partner fight all the time? Do you love each other, but simply drive one another other up a wall? Do you worry that you’ll eventually burn out from all the conflict, arguments, and hurt feelings, and that your relationship will deteriorate? If you’re seeking ways to increase love and intimacy and decrease reactionary behaviours like criticism, blaming, withdrawing, and defending, this book can guide you toward a place of harmony and understanding

Based in the revolutionary science of attachment theory and evidence-based emotionally focused therapy (EFT), this is an effective, research-based road map for helping high-conflict couples break free from painful and destructive habits. With this book, you’ll uncover the root cause of your conflicts-both as individuals and as a couple. You’ll also find simple strategies for creating an emotionally secure environment, as well as tips for managing triggers, de-escalating arguments, and cultivating a real and lasting connection.

Feeling emotionally safe and secure in our relationships is a primal need, and it is integral for our health and well-being. If you’re ready to transform conflict and chaos into unshakable closeness, this book will guide you, every step of the way.

Reviews

Brenda Della Casa, author, journalist, and self-esteem and empowerment coach
Having worked with Jennine on dozens of articles for some of the biggest magazines in the US and UK over the past fifteen years, I have seen firsthand how her unparalleled knowledge, empathy, and compassion can heal hearts, mend bonds, and rebuild relationships. Help for High-Conflict Couples is a clear result of decades of research and hard work, and it will surely change lives.
George Faller, LMFT, EFT trainer, president of the New York Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy (NYCEFT), and coauthor of Emotionally Focused Family Therapy
This book packs a perfect combination of cutting-edge theories; engaging stories; and real-time, practical tools. Guaranteed to leave readers with an increased capacity to communicate, respond, and love better!
Scott R. Woolley, PhD, distinguished professor at Alliant International University, EFT trainer, and founding director of the San Diego Center for EFT and TRIEFT Alliant
This book is a great resource for high-conflict couples. Written by two very competent, experienced emotionally focused therapy (EFT) therapists, the book lays out in simple but powerful terms how to use EFT principles to end high-conflict and replace it with a loving, secure bond. This book will be a valuable resource for years to come.