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In Love with Love

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6th November 2025

Price: £16.99

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Selected: ebook / ISBN-13: 9781399749244

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‘A literary and deeply heartfelt exploration of an under-appreciated genre. It is heaven from start to finish
INDIA KNIGHT, The Times

‘This book is funny, wise, and joyfully obsessed with its subject’
MONICA HEISEY

‘Endlessly witty, breathtakingly clever, a book you’ll read in one sitting’
CAROLINE O’DONOGHUE

‘The love letter the genre deserves’
MHAIRI McFARLANE


Smart, funny and passionate: An ode to a beloved genre and a brilliantly insightful piece of cultural criticism

Cowboys and aliens, dukes and dancers, power dynamics, death and domesticity, vampires and veterans, tradwives and single dads and sisters and small-town politics, private jets and princes and horses, hopes and dreams and fears, and so, so much kissing: this is a love letter to romantic fiction, but it’s also a book about creativity and creation and the job of art in this crazy old world.

Why do we read? Why do we write? What makes some books last forever, and others vanish from memory? What is the point of everything, anything, when everything – especially romantic love – is so fleeting in the grand scheme of things? How do we love when the world is falling apart? And what does it mean that love is the one subject of which we never seem to tire?

Part literary criticism, part investigation, total passion project, In Love with Love is a wild tour from the very beginnings of kissing in books through historic trends, favourite tropes, beloved friends and brand-new loves, from Jane Austen to Jasmine Guillory, Jilly Cooper to Georgette Heyer, from the depths of the ocean to the furthest reaches of the outer galaxy . . .

‘A joyful and brilliant book by a joyful and brilliant writer’
JESSICA STANLEY

‘This passionate and profound love letter to the love story will make any romance reader’s heart beat a little faster’
SARRA MANNING, Red Magazine

‘I swallowed this book whole. Full of warmth and — you guessed it — love, this is an astute, thoughtful and literary exploration of a subject that is often regarded as the opposite… Long live kissing books, and all hail Ella’
CLAIRE DAVERLEY

Reviews

Monica Heisey, author of <i>Really Good, Actually</i>
There's no one I trust on love more than Ella Risbridger. This book is funny, wise, and joyfully obsessed with its subject
Caroline O'Donoghue, author of <i>The Rachel Incident</i>
Endlessly witty, breathtakingly clever, a book you'll read in one sitting and then quote at dinner parties forever. Risbridger writes with a warmth and an expertise that is deeply earned yet lightly held
Sarvat Hasin, author of <i>The Giant Dark</i>
Risbridger writes about the romance novel with the care and attention of a romantic hero. This book has the intimacy of a midnight conversation with a close friend and the thrill and discovery of a new lover. I look forward to pressing it into many hands in the future
Jessica Stanley, author of <i>Consider Yourself Kissed</i>
A joyful and brilliant book by a joyful and brilliant writer. I'm in love with Ella Risbridger's mind!
Billy Lindon, author of Double Booked
I have such a big crush on this book! Fascinating, fun and flirty - just how I like my romances. It's so delightful to have someone as passionate and smart as Risbridger celebrating the belittled and beloved world of romance novels. To take silliness seriously is no small feat, and In Love with Love does it with zest and wonder
CLAIRE DAVERLEY, author of Talking at Night
What an utter delight for readers - and writers - of love stories. To read this is to throw the windows of your soul right open - to nod along, cheer, dance, and yearn for more. I swallowed this book whole. Full of warmth and - you guessed it, love - this is an astute, thoughtful and literary exploration of a subject that is often regarded as the opposite; there's nobody I'd rather read on matters of the heart, and this book covers ALL of those matters. It'll stay on my "books on writing" shelf forevermore, underlined and dog-eared and beloved, just like the stories she writes about. Long live kissing books, and all hail Ella
Emma Gannon, author of OLIVE
This is a cosy, clever treat of a book! To use Ella's words, it gave me a "warm buttered toast" feeling. I shall continue to read ~silly novels by lady novelists~ on repeat. Imagine listening to someone at a dinner party tell you about the amazing book they just read. This is that book
Mhairi McFarlane, author of <i>Cover Story</i>
The love letter the genre deserves
India Knight, The Times
I am, appropriately, completely smitten with In Love With Love by Ella Risbridger, which is a literary and deeply heartfelt exploration of an under-appreciated genre. It is heaven from start to finish. Risbridger writes like the cleverest, funniest, most moving, most warm-hearted angel. Everyone's getting it for Christmas
Lisa Owens, author of <i>Not Working</i>
Clever, comforting, sharp and funny, In Love with Love is as enjoyable and compelling as the most satisfying romance - the happiest coupling of subject and author
Sarra Manning, Red Magazine
This passionate and profound love letter to the love story will make any romance reader's heart beat a little faster