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Controlled Chaos

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18th March 2027

Price: £16.99

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Selected: ebook / ISBN-13: 9781408784020

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In Controlled Chaos, Daniel Jones, a respected voice in the autistic community, offers authentic advice, expert insight, real-life stories and actionable strategies to help neurodivergent parents navigate the unique joys and challenges of raising children. He explores what it really means to be a neurodivergent parent – from understanding your own neurodivergence to building a home life that works for your nervous system instead of against it – and emphasises the importance of self-advocacy and building support networks, ensuring that parents don’t feel isolated in their journey.

Covering sensory-friendly spaces, routines and structure, emotional regulation, communication with children, advocacy in schools and healthcare, managing overload, meltdowns, daily responsibilities, bonding with your child and more, Daniel shares simple systems, practical tools, and honest insight to help parents stay regulated, present and connected. One of the first books to support neurodivergent parents, whose experiences are often underrepresented and misunderstood, Controlled Chaos is a timely and essential resource that celebrates the strengths of neurodivergent families, reminding parents that they can build a family life that is loving, stable and true to who they are.

Reviews

Temple Grandin, bestselling author of 'The Autistic Brain' and 'Visual Thinking'
Controlled Chaos features lots of practical information which will help neurodivergent parents handle the stress of being a parent. It is essential for parents to have plans in the house and time in their schedule for whatever may come
Dr James Brown, author of 'ADHD Unpacked'
Parenting is chaotic, unpredictable, noisy and relentlessly demanding, creating a hostile takeover of many of the things neurodivergent brains rely on to function. Controlled Chaos understands that. Daniel M. Jones combines lived experience, humour and genuinely practical strategies without pretending that neurodivergent parents need fixing. This is an accessible, reassuring and refreshingly realistic guide to building family life around the brains you actually have, rather than the ones parenting books assume you have
Angela Kingdon, PhD, author of 'Autistic Culture' and founder of the Autistic Culture Institute
Some autism books are all doom and gloom, while others are filled with toxic positivity, but Controlled Chaos is a raw and honest collection of terms and tools that will explain neurodivergent lived experience in ways that provide a real balance between the strengths and challenges of being a part of a neurodivergent family. With practical suggestions and a realistic approach, Jones guides readers to creating a happy and calm approach to parenting and life
Nechama Sorscher, PhD, psychologist and author of 'Your Neurodiverse Child'
Controlled Chaos is a must read for both parents with ASD and those who parent children with ASD. Daniel M. Jones brilliantly explains parenting tips, strategies and the neurocognitive framework that accompanies ASD. This book is filled with humour, grace and compassion. The action steps are highly effective and lead to parenting success